Not Getting Our House Today

Our realtor asked our lender how long it would take to have the house appraised and papers all ready.  He said 10 days.  We put in the contract to close in 14 days, which is today, and the appraiser has not sent his information yet.  According to new laws, the appraiser can't directly be contacted by the lender or realtor, so we don't know what is going on.  Our realtor submitted a new addendum to close by the middle of next week, but the seller hasn't signed it yet, and according to our realtor he is not too happy.  Since we broke contract, if the seller doesn't accept this addendum we don't get our house and we loose our earnest money and the cost for an appraisal.   The frustrating part is between the structural issue house and this one we are close to $2500 gone.  We know that God is in control and will guide us every step we take.  Thank you for your continued prayers.